Happy Friday everyone! We wanted to talk, specifically, to all of you moms, dads, grandparents, and caregivers this morning. We know first hand how being a parent of a child with special needs goes hand in hand with receiving more negative comments, judgmental statements or feedback. Sometimes those comments come from your child’s school. Sometimes it comes from a neighbor. Maybe it’s a look you get from a stranger while just trying to accomplish your grocery shopping. At times, it’s delivered from a friend. We do believe those negative comments are a reflection of where that person is in their lives; their own personal level of awareness. Even when understanding this, your heart doesn’t sting any less when being on the receiving end.
It’s so important to find the positive moments in each day and note them. Write those moments of positivity down in a journal, state them out loud, or say them quietly to yourself. Even if you start with just one a day. There is always something positive to be found. At first, you may have to look deeper. For example, yesterday I said a moment of “thanks” for not having to drive on I-85 for the day. This morning I said “thanks” for the amazing, wonderful and rare morning we all had before school. What we can promise you is, once you start noticing a positive moment in your day, you begin to shift. You begin to notice more of them and, over time, the negative comments do not sting or stick to you like they once did.
Give it a try. Set a goal. For 30 days notice at least one positive thing in your day.
What are you thankful for today?
Christina and Wendy