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Christina and Wendy
Every year, we like to honor those that go above and behind for our children. Maybe it’s your child’s soccer coach that understands what your child needs to be successful on the team. It could also be a dance instructor, art teacher, the general education teacher, special education teacher, a Tae-Kwon-Do instructor, or an after school teacher. Maybe it’s the principal at your child’s school that has shown empathy and understanding and helped created an accommodation for your child. The possibilities are limitless!
We would love to hear who has had a positive influence in helping your child be successful! Please e-mail us your nomination(s) at email@example.com no later than November 16th. Please include the name and the area in which he/she has positively influenced your child.
Gratitude will bring more into our lives immediately.-Rhonda Byrne
Christina and Wendy
October also shines a light with bringing awareness to Dyslexia. We wanted to share resources for yourself, for your family, and for your child’s school. Awareness creates understanding which then empowers those around us to be able to see the struggles our children experience. We are then better equipped to help and teach them in a way they can be successful.
One terrific resource is the International Dyslexia Association:
Read here to find out common signs and symptoms of Dyslexia starting from preschool-high school:
Click here to experience how a child is dealing with a learning or attention difficulty:
Of course, we feel that all children benefit from being taught as if they have Dyslexia. If you’re interested in hearing more about Orton-Gillingham or a multi-sensory approach to teaching reading, please contact us at firstname.lastname@example.org. Read below for an interesting article on how all children benefit:
Some research on how a Dyslexic brain works:
20 Things parents of children with Dyslexia would understand:
Dyslexia in the general education classroom:
Different types of Dyslexia:
Dyslexia and the law. Can my child receive an IEP, 504 plan, or accommodations? (Hint: Dyslexia is considered a learning disability, which is recognized in schools) :
An excellent book on Dyslexia:
Frequently asked questions:
From Learning Disabilitlies Association of America:
Question and answer session on the benefits of having Dyslexia:
Christina tutors students of all ages with Dyslexia and learning disabilities using Orton-Gillingham. If interested in more details, please reach out to us at email@example.com.
Christina and Wendy
Often times, parents will ask how can they help their child become a stronger reader. There are several components necessary for building a strong reader and when one of the components is weaker, it can affect other areas such as comprehension. The components include:
Phonemic awareness skills-which is having the ability to manipulate sounds that make up our spoken language
Phonics skills-which is having the understanding that there are relationships between letters and sounds
Fluency skills-which is reading with accuracy, speed, and expression (or prosody)
Application of reading comprehension strategies to enhance their understanding, and they should enjoy what they are reading. Reading should be fun!
Within these components, a child must also utilize known strategies for decoding new words, know how to figure out the meaning of new vocabulary, and pull that together for smooth fluency. Some children learn these reading skills regardless of how they are taught while other children truly need these skills taught explicitly meaning they need them taught through direct instruction.
There can be a fine line between a struggling reader and a reluctant reader. A struggling reader will be having difficulties with one or more of the above areas and, often times, as the child gets older can “mask” those missed skills. A reluctant reader could be a struggling reader or could be that he/she hasn’t yet developed the overall fluency skills necessary to enjoy a book. I do want to remind parents that reader’s theatre passages, comic books, graphic novels and poetry books are good resources to use for having a student choose a book or reading material that he/she is interested in. It’s also important for a child to be choosing independent reading books that is “just right”. What does “just right” mean? It means that your child can open a book to any given page and have less than five decoding errors. Plus, they should be able to tell you what was read.
If you want to strengthen your child’s overall reading, it’s important to first determine the area or areas he/she needs to focus on. If your child is struggling overall with comprehension then it’s possible he/she needs help with the three previous skills stated above.
I’ll work on typing up a “series” of reading information and strategies for the different components above. In the meantime, if you have any specific questions please e-mail them to me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
We also have some helpful reading resources and books on our Pinterest page. You can check them out here https://www.pinterest.com/confidentsoluti/boards/
With love of reading,
We posted this about a year ago but wanted to share it again. Every single child shines his or her inner light to the world. Sometimes we fail to see it because we’re focused on a behavior or worried about their day or even their future. This quote is a good reminder for us to take a step back, a deep breath and enjoy them where they are right now. Love them and teach them non-judgmentally the skills to help them be successful in their lives. As parents and educators, be a support for each other helping build one another up.
Sending love and light to all of you on this beautiful Monday morning.
Christina and Wendy
Registration for our next six-week session of social skills classes is now open. Classes begin on Sunday, October 8th and run through Sunday November 12th.
To register, please fill out this form and e-mail it to us at email@example.com
Registration form Registration for October 8th-November 12th
For some students, obtaining and utilizing good social skills do not come naturally. They move through their environment having a difficult time communicating and understanding more than just direct language-based interactions. We typically begin intuitively learning key social skills around age three through observation and parallel play. When these skills are not intuitively understood, they can be taught cognitively. For example, good social skills include eye contact, conversational turn taking, and flexible thinking. For some students, these skills need to be taught and practiced in a non-judgmental environment. Previous posts about Social Learning can be found here Social Learning and Who Benefits From Social Skills Classes?
We are offering three different sessions so please read the specifics below. As always, reach out to us with questions at firstname.lastname@example.org. We believe that empowering the parent/guardian is equally important in empowering the child. Please plan on staying for the parent session of your child’s class to learn what your child is learning and how to help your child at home. For session one and session two, teacher letters will be e-mailed weekly to each parent. This gives you the opportunity to share what your child is learning with his/her teacher so we can collectively help your child practice these skills within their different environments. We encourage you to let your child’s teacher know that he or she can also reach out to us for extra support or questions for your child in the classroom. We’re all here to help your child grow in his/her social learning.
All classes are held at University Ridge Office Center, 1905 JN Pease Place, Suite 201, Charlotte, NC 28262.
The total cost for a six-week session is $225.00. To register, fill out the registration form found at the top and e-mail it to us at email@example.com. Each group will have no more than 5 students so we can practice “thinking” about thinking as well as individualize for each child. Questions about our classes? Please e-mail us with your questions and we would be happy to connect with you to tell you more!
This is the perfect beginning class if you are new to our social skills groups. This six-week session lays a foundation of skills that your child can continue to build upon and grow his or her social thinking. During this session, children and parents will learn the differences between self-awareness, self-monitoring, and self-control. Students will learn about “hidden” social expectations in different environments, how to make social observations to learn those “hidden” rules, how behaviors are connected to emotions, strengthen observation/imitation skills, how to gain self-awareness with individual behaviors, move into self-monitoring tools for shifting negative behaviors into positive ones, how to identify if a problem is a big one or little one, and learn how to use your whole body to listen. As we continue to teach these skills, the group will begin to understand that people have a perspective that is different from their own and how to navigate a social interaction using this knowledge. Each child will choose a personal behavior goal and learn tools to help create a shift in awareness and behaviors.
This group meets every Sunday from 2:00-3:00
Zones of Regulation helps teach students how to be more mindful of other people in their social circles. They will begin to make a connection between their actions, their own emotions, and how others are feeling. Zones of Regulation teaches children how to consciously regulate their actions based on understanding their feelings. This will lead to increased self-control and problem solving abilities. During the class, they will learn how to use strategies or tools to stay in a zone or move from one to another.
This group meets every Sunday from 3:00-4:00
This session is designed for open practice of the social skills that have previously been taught. We will create opportunities for the students to practice social thinking, Theory of Mind skills, and executive functioning skills in a play environment. This gives us the opportunity to help each child individually navigate a challenging social scenario using their tools and knowledge from previous groups. This session will work on deepening the interpersonal skills to develop better problem solving skills which creates a scaffolding of increased social skills. Due to the level of individualization, instead of a weekly teacher letter, we will give our contact information to your child’s teacher and can facilitate open communication on skills their student continues to strengthen as well as get feedback on what skills need continued practice in the school environment.
This group meets every Sunday from 4:00-5:00
If you’re not sure if our group is the right fit for your child or have any further questions, we would love to talk with you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Christina and Wendy
Happy Thursday everyone! We would love to hear from you on what kind of information you would like to have. Send us an e-mail with your thoughts at email@example.com, leave a comment here on our website, or on our Facebook page.
Would you like to know more about Orton-Gillingham tutoring or speech language therapy or evaluations? Would information about paperwork or communicating with your child’s school be helpful? Maybe advocacy tips for navigating a meeting at your child’s school? Tips for teaching social skills to your children? Resources in a specific area? Specific special education laws and resources?
We have a lot of information between the two of us and would love to hear from you on what would be most helpful!
Christina and Wendy
A new school year already! This can bring feelings of excitement as well as anxiety. One thing you can to do prepare for the new school year is to begin communicating with your child’s teacher. Who else knows him or her like you do? Communication is a critical piece in your partnership with your child’s school. We recommend writing an e-mail or a letter to your child’s new teacher telling them all about your child. We previously wrote a post about this but feel it’s important to share again. You can find the past post here Communicating with Your Child’s Teacher which also includes a link for a template on how to write a letter and communicate.
As the year progresses, keep that communication line open. Here is a link to the Wrightslaw website on how to write an effective letter to your child’s school pertaining to any EC needs or concerns http://www.wrightslaw.com/advoc/articles/letters.draft.htm
If you would like help on how to begin or tools for communicating with your child’s school, please reach out to us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Cheers to the start of a fantastic year!
Christina and Wendy
Typically, we learn social skills in an intuitive way around 3 to 4 years old. When these skills are not learned naturally, it’s important to teach them cognitively in a nonjudgmental way. What does “listen” actually mean? What are the expectations of “listen”? We are excited to help your child learn new skills and tools that he/she can use at home and at school. We look forward to seeing you in a few weeks! E-mail us with any questions. We love connecting with you! email@example.com You can also find useful information under our Upcoming Events tab on our home page.
Wendy and Christina
Good morning! We have made a lot of posts this week with our fall schedule and registrations. We wanted to let you know the differences between the two groups that we recently posted.
The social skills groups are for elementary aged children. They are working and building upon specific social skills. The children meet as a group while the parents meet as a separate group. This session runs for six weeks and registration is due by August 19th. Please click here for the full details Registration for School Age Social Skills Classes August 20th-October 1st
Our middle school group typically meets two Friday evenings a month and you can register for all the open Fridays or you can register the week the group meets. This group consists of no more than 10 students with grades ranging from 6th-9th. This is more of a relaxed group than our elementary aged group because it’s more of an organic environment where the students hang out, we play games, and we teach mini-lessons during the group. Please click here for the full details Middle School OTB Group-Fall Semester
If you have any questions about our groups, please contact us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
We will be posting details about a homeschool fall schedule as well as our upcoming free IEP classes for parents and guardians soon.
Christina and Wendy